My crushes

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Registered: 07-16-2001
My crushes
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Sat, 04-12-2014 - 11:32am
Why aren't things just easy for us?? I think I have a couple of crushes. I don't even know if I'd want to date either of these guys, but I would like to flirt a little more. I haven't been brave enough yet. The first one I mentioned on Ruby's post. I've known him casually for several years. Met him through his brother, who pursued me even though he was married. I've always kind of had a thing for this guy (J), but never acted on it. He moved away and has just recently moved back. I can't decide if he's just being friendly or if the glances and eye contact/smiles are signals I should be picking up on. He's never done anything inappropriate like other guys tend to do when they're trying to just get in my pants, so that's good. The other guy is a friend of my girlfriend that I play trivia with. I haven't talked to him much, but he's come to sit with us several times after trivia. Never stays too late. He was briefly seeing my friend's cousin, which just made me go ick. She climbs on anything that moves. Last Thursday, he and I actually talked and he seems like a decent guy. Again, the eye contact and smiles are something I can't read well. I know the second guy says he doesn't want a relationship with anyone, but he was dating someone recently. I don't know if I'd go out with him. Just flirting. The first guy...I think he might be a big teddy bear smooshy, easily hurt kinda guy who pretends not to be. I think that's why I haven't made a move yet. I like him as a person. I don't wanna mess that up. There is a third guy. Another friend of my girlfriend. Problem is- I think he wants to talk to me, but doesn't seem to have the balls to. He's cute. I'd probably date him. But I have a pretty strong personality. If he can't talk to me, we wouldn't work out. Now that my last guy FINALLY got the hint that I don't want him back (I hope...it's been since January), I think I'm getting my groove back. I just need to put it into action. I can't wait for summer!

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Registered: 01-02-2012
In reply to: rubysat
Tue, 04-15-2014 - 3:27pm
Crossing my fingers for more smiles from him on Thursday, Shy! :-) Good seeing you, Cfk. Nothing is going on for me either, but it is really nice being here again and letting myself rant a bit. ;-) BTW Shy, it worked pressing refresh right away. Got in at once.
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Registered: 03-24-2003
In reply to: juliasuk
Wed, 04-16-2014 - 9:50am

Hey Ruby,

Long time no 'see'....

Can I ask, which bands are you talking about, the ones you and your friend are into? Just curious....

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-02-2012
In reply to: rubysat
Wed, 04-16-2014 - 3:49pm
Hey Julia! For me, The Stones all the way. And my friend is just as die-hard about Pearl Jam. :-) Rock chicks. ;-)
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Registered: 07-16-2001
In reply to: shywon
Fri, 04-18-2014 - 10:18am
So guy #1 is interested. That is clear. Now to see WHAT he's interested in! I had a very good night last night. :)

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