My Plan

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Registered: 04-06-2003
My Plan
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Mon, 10-17-2005 - 11:08am

I've gone as far as to call a psychic about my issues w/ "J" and let me tell you that didnt help me at all!!
So, i have created my own plan: I'm going to move on, or at least make him think that i have, I'm not going to show any interest in him, (except the occasional flirting of course)
Hopefully this will make him realize exactly what hes missing.
Does this sound like a good plan?
& we are going out next weekend w/ a bunch of friends, chances are we'll end up back at my place. Should i say no? (that is the hardest part of this plan; he's het best i've ever had!!)

What do you think?!?!

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Registered: 09-01-2005
In reply to: ebeatty05
Mon, 10-17-2005 - 11:47am
Just don't call it moving on because that's not what you're doing.
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Registered: 04-06-2003
In reply to: ebeatty05
Mon, 10-17-2005 - 12:08pm
I said i was goint to make him think i was, I know i'm not moving on. I'm not ready to let go just yet. I want to make him make a decision w/o pressure from me & w/ the time i'm not spending on him who knows maybe i will 'move on' to something better
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Registered: 09-01-2005
In reply to: ebeatty05
Mon, 10-17-2005 - 1:03pm

>>I want to make him make a decision w/o pressure from me >>

I think it's good if you look at it that way. I'll hope for positive results for you, either way.

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Registered: 09-01-2004
In reply to: ebeatty05
Mon, 10-17-2005 - 1:28pm
You may not be directly pressuring him, but your plan is manipulative and that is a subtle pressure. Why would you want to be with a man that you have to manipulate into wanting to be with you?
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Registered: 03-20-2003
In reply to: ebeatty05
Mon, 10-17-2005 - 7:55pm

I want to make him make a decision w/o pressure from me


If I remember correctly, he's already made a decision.