My Single Life (Survey)

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Registered: 05-19-2003
My Single Life (Survey)
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Tue, 05-23-2006 - 2:08pm

Edited 5/23/2006 2:14 pm ET by cl214

(Ooops, I thought this survey would allow several selections)




Edited 5/23/2006 2:16 pm ET by cl214

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Registered: 01-04-2006
Mon, 06-12-2006 - 5:31pm
by the time men get to point where they want to settle...forget it..i am 28 and most my guys my age,IF they are interested in settling down and having arelationship..have slept with many women and that is a turn off to me,or they are only interested in the nasty slutty ditzy types and what cracks me up is they actually do marry them!my one friend was in love with a nasty woman,she used him the whole time....then he had another girlfriend and did not spend much time with her....ok go figure.Probably because she was not as easy....my friends are beautiful nice ladies,but men skip us and go for the snotty sleazy ones...so we give up.I will have some fun here and there,but actually work on a relationship?no thanx.Besides i want to go back to school.,i love being with my friends and doing volunteer work and work full time..i don`t have time to give another soon to a be a jerky ex a chance....too much aggriavation is life as it is.People are single for a reason..bad luck,no one out there,you act stupid,etc..whatever...don`t let it get you down
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Registered: 01-03-2006
Mon, 06-12-2006 - 9:06pm
All guys don't go for sleezy women, trust me it is a HUGE turnoff.Women who are caring, sweet, affectionate, and humble are the MOST attractive women. Ladies, do not sell yourselves short. I always pay attention to how a woman carries herself. I am looking for character. Sleezy women are pretty easy to spot out, especially when they open their mouthes. I totally cannot wait until I find somone that I can share everything about me, and I want to know everything about her. Her fears, concerns, hobbies, likes, dislikes. A relationship doesn't have to be about constraints, but about sharing yourself with one another. Love is the greatest gift we have and I think it's a shame that a lot of peole are all about themselves. I do want to find that woman that I can spend the rest of my life with, to love, laugh, and cry with. Love is about the small things in life, but they go a long way. My advice ladies, you KNOW what you want and do not settle for less. Be your TRUE self, and a guy will fall in love with you, and he will know what a true gift you are.
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Registered: 07-03-2005
Tue, 06-13-2006 - 1:21pm
dang two scoops - you gave me hope in that one post! More than anything to think a guy actually wants to have a relationship like what you describe. I've spent so much time trying to convince myself men don't want to have that real, deep, connection you speak of... but maybe a few of you do!? I'd sure like to find that and might need to reassess my current situation to "be true to myself" thank you!

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