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Registered: 09-17-2011
NEED ADVICE
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Mon, 10-03-2011 - 6:04pm

Okay I need some major advice.

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Registered: 07-16-2001
Mon, 10-03-2011 - 6:50pm
Well, first I don't think there are fishing "classes" but I could be wrong on that. It may be something that's specific to a particular area of the country. That may be why he seemed shocked.

It doesn't really sound like he's interested right now. He could be keeping his distance until you are single, or he could just not be interested. Unless he asks you out, I'd consider him just a fun flirtation.
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Registered: 11-28-1999
Mon, 10-03-2011 - 6:56pm

I really don't know why asking him about fishing would provoke such a reaction--you didn't ask him on a date.

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Registered: 09-17-2011
Mon, 10-03-2011 - 8:31pm
Thanks, I should add that he just went thru a divorce earlier this year. I didn't ask him to teach me I just asked if he knew anywhere that could teach me. I was thinking about saying something in a few days like I was serious the other day do you know of anywhere that would teach me how to fish and play it off like I didn't mean anything by it.
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Registered: 05-14-1999
Mon, 10-03-2011 - 9:55pm
I was thinking what Shy was, I'm not sure they have "classes" now, they have clubs. You could do a Google search for fishing clubs in your area and then perhaps mention the options you found online if he brings it up again. I think you asked "What does that mean." It may not have meant anything at all so, I wouldn't worry about it. Continue being yourself and if he's interested, I think he'll find a way to make it known, if not ask you out.