Need advice

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-17-2011
Need advice
6
Sun, 10-02-2011 - 9:28am

Ok here it gose...After 8 years of marraige my divorce will be final by the end of the week.

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-05-2010
Sun, 10-02-2011 - 9:54am

While getting involved with a co-worker has its risks, a lot of people find love in the office. Also, am I correct that he is the supervisor in a different department than you work at? If he is in a different department, the risk is less if things don't work out. It will be easier to avoid each other then. The only thing that really concerns me here is his reputation for being moody. Moody isn't a good quality for a boyfriend to have.

I'd get more details about his moodiness at work. If it sounds like he has a good reason to be grouchy, then go for it with him. Invite him

Avatar for cfk_3
iVillage Member
Registered: 05-14-1999
Sun, 10-02-2011 - 11:05am

The next time you plan or are invited to, a get-together/outing with a few friends, why not invite him along?

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-28-1999
Sun, 10-02-2011 - 11:41am

Do you go out to lunch?

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-17-2011
Sun, 10-02-2011 - 11:57am
His moodiness is for good reason. He never yells at his subordnates. Just can get frustrated with them. I would in his situation too. He's laid back for the most part. If it didn't work out we could easily avoid each other. I will be marketing full time here soon so I wont have any contact with him.
Community Leader
Registered: 07-16-2001
Sun, 10-02-2011 - 12:40pm

I was going to say the exact same thing as cfk.

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-15-2009
Mon, 10-03-2011 - 10:02pm
Is he the same man that you were talking about in the most recent pist with the same title? For continuity's sake you should have posted an update in this thread. Sounds like he is being moody as you described, but now confronted with the reality that you are both single, the dynamic has changed and flirting is no longer safe, but could mean something so he is freaking out a little bit but is still compelled to have some reason to talk to you as he always has. Just act like business as usual and let him come to you on his terms.