Need advice regarding this situation....

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Registered: 06-01-2004
Need advice regarding this situation....
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Tue, 10-11-2005 - 2:30pm
I met a man recently that I was considering a FWB situation with; however, not only did I not feel any chemistry, but I also was not impressed with his goods, so to speak...now he has contacted me via email to see if I'm still interested, and I am not...so what should I tell him? I don't want to hurt his feelings, just not what I am looking for right now...any advice? We did not have sex, just played around a bit, enough for me to know what I like and don't like, if you know what I mean...

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Registered: 07-03-2005
Tue, 10-11-2005 - 3:28pm

tell him " just not what I am looking for right now "

sometimes I feel like I'm in some warped universe! :(

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Registered: 01-02-2005
Tue, 10-11-2005 - 3:34pm

Wow can I relate! It reminds me of an ex & I so wanted to say your blank is SO small! Also reminiscent of a Sex in the City episode. I'm not laughing at you...but I can so relate to being unsatisfied with his goods. It is a very important thing. It's sad when your own personal pleasure toy is bigger than he is...my own experience.

Do what's best for you & be glad you didn't have sex with him :)

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Registered: 03-20-2003
Tue, 10-11-2005 - 6:29pm

Tell him that given the arrangement that you are planning on making, certain criteria have to be met and he does not qualify.


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Registered: 01-02-2005
Tue, 10-11-2005 - 10:14pm
Oh my...so funny. But then what if he asks why?
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Registered: 03-20-2003
Tue, 10-11-2005 - 10:18pm

We all know "why" is a silly question when it comes to relationships.