Need Help in Dating - Loss of Skills

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Registered: 05-26-2004
Need Help in Dating - Loss of Skills
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Wed, 03-01-2006 - 2:20pm

I have recently moved to another country and very interested in dating while i am here of course. The problem is that i only get to the point of the guy giving me his phone number. I have been here two months and there has been nothing and i feel as though i am starting to show my insecurities about this. I met this guy last week at a club and we exchanged numbers and i called him the next day and he wanted to meet me in the town that i was in, i went to where we were to meet and poof nothing and he says he could not get in touch with me until about an hour later because his phone was dead. Well he did call me from his friends phone but the problem is that when he did not show i text messaged him told him i did not hear from him and therefore good bye and if he had wanted to just hook up or play games he should have just let me know, he would be surprised by my answer. we did talk about this via text for a while and he was supposed to call today and nothing. I have this insecurity i know because i have not been on a date in over a year (winter 2004) and not had sex in two years. HOW DO I GET PASSED THE EXCHANGING NUMBERS OR NOT APPEAR DESPERATE, WHATEVER I AM DOING WRONG TO JUST ENJOY MYSELF.

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-13-2004
Wed, 03-01-2006 - 3:24pm
You need to make them WORK. Do not innitiate the calling. Let them call you. If they don't you know first hand that they are not worth it.
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Registered: 01-07-2004
Thu, 03-02-2006 - 3:09pm

Hello!

I'm just curious: which country is it that you live in at the moment?

Pipsa