Need help! Reentering Dating

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-12-2006
Need help! Reentering Dating
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Thu, 03-29-2007 - 11:24pm
I'm having problems with my computer and I tried to post before but I don't think it took...sorry 'bout the second post.
iVillage Member
Registered: 03-30-2007
Fri, 03-30-2007 - 1:13am

There are no rules. You've worked on figuring out who you are, now focus on what you want.

About the call, perhaps he's nervous too. Maybe he missed your voicemail, or doesn't realize that you expect him to return the call. Call him one more time. Leave a voicemail if he doesn't pick up. Then don't dwell, or at least try not to dwell, on whether a phone call is in your future. Continue to look in other places.

Congratulations on getting out there and good luck!

iVillage Member
Registered: 06-08-2006
Fri, 03-30-2007 - 12:36pm

Try not to dwell on whether or not he will call. You left him a message and the ball is now in his court, give the man a little time to respond. If he is really interested, you will hear from him and if you do not hear from him then you will not have wasted your time on a man who wasn't all that into you in the first place.

YG