Negative of being single

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Registered: 05-08-2006
Negative of being single
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Mon, 05-08-2006 - 6:17pm
One of the biggest downfalls i find of being single is the no sex. Do others feel this and and how do others cope with lack of sex?
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Registered: 09-09-2003
Mon, 05-08-2006 - 8:10pm

I agree.

I personally forget all about sex after a 2 month break! so I need some warm up time to get back into it when I have a partner. I have to admit I feel much better and less stressed when I have sex regularly. but I wont be with any one just for the heck of it. He doesnot have to be a boyfriend but at least someone interesting (physically and intellectually)

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Registered: 11-17-2004
Mon, 05-08-2006 - 9:25pm
I consider myself to be a sexual person, but well, it's so much better with someone else then doing the job myself :) But it's not something I miss all that much, although once in a while, I just want to grab the first guy I see! However, when I'm with someone, I want it all the time!
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Tue, 05-09-2006 - 5:41pm
Think we all feel less stressed after sex. but agree it is nice to be attracted to someone both physically and mentally and sex it not always just about relationships....a 1 night stand or just shagging for a few weeks is fun to
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Registered: 05-08-2006
Tue, 05-09-2006 - 5:42pm
Yes definitely better with someone else but at times we all need to masturbate dont we!
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Registered: 03-27-2003
Tue, 05-09-2006 - 10:24pm
I never slept with a girl before and I always feel like I am missing something. I know that I never tried hard to have a girlfriend, yet I also feel suffocated by the conservative environment in which I live. I fantasize about girls all the time, but on the other hand, I think too much about how people will look at me. (Sigh) Silly me -- a classic case of Jekyll and Hyde.