Nervousness Means No Way!!
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Nervousness Means No Way!!
| Thu, 05-18-2006 - 1:53pm |
I have read some responses to the "Body Language" post and am puzzled by some of them. A lot of the repsonses say that a nervous guy means he is not that into you. Is the correct, because I always thought a nervous guy meant he did care, but was unsure how to move forward. For those who feel a nervous guy means, no way is he into you, I would like them to explain why this is and what they have found to be true. I am not saying this is wrong or right, just curious..... Thanks!!

I tend to be the same way with men. (Unless he's creepy. Creepy always makes me uncomfortable)
If I am not sexually attracted to a guy or attracted to him atleast, I am the most confident. If I am extremely attracted to him, I try to fake it but sooner or later, my nervousness starts like I feel a lump in my throat and can no longer talk or sometimes if I see the guy, I'll immediately look the other way or try to avoid him some how.
I've seen guys do this to me sometimes. I usually take their reaction as not interested, though. LOL.
But I've also had guys that were very confident, atleast it seemed to me and they come right up and strike up a conversation with me and they don't seem nervous in the least. Usually what gives it away for me is how they look at me or they linger in the conversation when I'm ready to end it, they still try to keep me engaged in the conversation.
Hmmm... It's very hard to say as everyone is different.