Nice way to start the day

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Nice way to start the day
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Mon, 10-10-2005 - 7:58am

This morning when I checked my email, I had one from J.

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Mon, 10-10-2005 - 9:43am

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Mon, 10-10-2005 - 12:09pm
Ick, I know that must stink to still get emails from him... especially when they are pictures of his new life with another girl. Honestly though, it doesn't sound or seem like he's too happy with this person or he wouldn't even think of sending emails and picutres to you. I'd take consolation in the fact that he doesn't seem to have moved on even though he may be "pretending" he is.
The other reply is right, there is someone out there who is better for you and would never dream of hurting your feelings this way.
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Registered: 08-03-2005
Mon, 10-10-2005 - 1:19pm
ok my question is WHY would he send this??? i cant imagine getting an e-mail from an ex with pics of his new gf and i cant imagine sending anything like that to any of my exes! weird!!
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Registered: 07-03-2005
Mon, 10-10-2005 - 2:27pm

were YOU the only recepient or was he sending it to a group as kind of a "life update" type thing!?

if it was ONLY to you - you better think LONG and HARD about getting your heart tied back up in that! :(

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Registered: 01-02-2005
Mon, 10-10-2005 - 3:22pm

Hi,

I agree with everyone & he still has an emotional hold on you if you let him. The last guy I dated which I sobbed to you all about, I had to block his email so I could move on. It is still tough...going on day 10. He even sent me flowers on my bday which I gave to another person because I don't want to be reminded of him. He didn't want me nor want to do the work. I told him I can't be friends with him.

For your own healing stop all contact so you can make space in your life for someone who deserves you & appreciate you.

Big hugz,
jstbu

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Registered: 07-24-2003
Mon, 10-10-2005 - 5:29pm

Don't respond. You may want to right now, but in the long run you'll feel better if you don't. I say either delete it, or just ignore it if you don't want to do that.

Todd

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Mon, 10-10-2005 - 6:45pm

The email was to everyone in his address book- it looked like.

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Registered: 07-03-2005
Mon, 10-10-2005 - 9:44pm
ummmm you are only on day ten? have you even worked through any of the stages yet? NOt to be rude but... on day 10 I thought I was doing pretty good too. Hope your strength stays with you!
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Registered: 07-03-2005
Mon, 10-10-2005 - 9:48pm

"He knows it hurts me too much."

hence forth I REALLY think you should NOT reply and if he ever emails you again I'd reply with... "please do not send me any more emails - delete me from your address book so I don't get your life updates, please"

I'm sorry K - but he sounds like a basket case to me... he's OBVIOUSLY NOT happy and to go messing with your emotions possibly in hopes of getting a self confidence boost... well... he doesn't deserve you!

BIG HUGS!!!!

He's out there... ya gotta believe!

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Tue, 10-11-2005 - 8:01am

I'm not going to reply.

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