No calls

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Registered: 09-09-2003
No calls
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Wed, 09-28-2005 - 7:43pm
after a boring date with Mr. T I thought he would never call but he did.
Then I called him the past Sunday and asked if he would like to join me and my friends for dinner and he said sure if he is in town as he sometimes travels for work.
I know he is still in town but did not contact me since Sunday when I called him.
I have him all day on my MSN but does not chat.
I find it a little unfriendly that he does not tell me until the last minute whether he is coming or not. In the mean time I changed my plans I m going to concert instead. I dont want to surprise him with plan change but I m not going to call him to tell him about this.
I m thinking I will wait till Thursday but if no calls I will stop answering his phone calls. Kuz he should be either interested or not!! there is no middle ground!
What would you do in my shoes?
Avatar for cl_shywon
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Registered: 03-20-2003
In reply to: juliara2003
Wed, 09-28-2005 - 9:56pm

What day did you ask him to join you for dinner on?

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Registered: 09-09-2003
In reply to: juliara2003
Thu, 09-29-2005 - 12:22am

oh the dinner is on Friday. I changed my plans kuz there is a concert in town I want to see plus it is Wed and I m not sure he is coming! I think it is only decent that he tells me one day b4 if he is coming or not so I will wait till Thursday but Friday would be really late to call me and say he is/isnt coming. I mean he could say that I m going with friends so with him or without the plan is on True but minimum courtesey is to tell the people who want to have your company whether you will be/wont be joining a day in advance Or if he does not know yet he should tell me that at least.

I really liked this guy a lot but he is giving some hard time!

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Registered: 03-20-2003
In reply to: juliara2003
Thu, 09-29-2005 - 7:48am

But you've already changed your plans.

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Registered: 09-01-2004
In reply to: juliara2003
Thu, 09-29-2005 - 8:43am
I would forget him and move on. End of story.