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| Mon, 10-08-2007 - 4:41pm |
I am 24 and single. I do not want a relationship becausw school is really busy right now. But, there are times I get lonely. I need some advice to keep me from being depressed and lonely on days I don't have anything to do. I have no friends because most of my friends work, having boyfriends, are married, or have kids and they never wanna do anything with me or do the things I like to do. It's always come over my house and watch movies, I hate being inside all the time. I also work 2 jobs and I live with my daddy and other family members. There isn't much I can do at my house outside my bedroom. Could anyone please give me some ideas! I'm bored at times and don't wanna feel lonely anymore! I even tried making new friends, but most have boyfriends and only wanna spend that time with them. HELP!!!

It's tough when all your friends seems too busy to hang out or attached to their boyfriends hips.
The thing that saved me was finding single friends who understood! I would ask your currently hitched friends if they know of other people your age that are also single - not to date but just to hang out with. You may also want to determine what you'd like to be doing in your free time and find a local group that organizes events - if you like nature, find the local chapter of the Sierra Club, or maybe you like the theater, find a community theater that needs help with productions.
There's also a group called Professionals in the City that's in a few cities in the U.S. If you're near one of the cities where they have activities, maybe you could check them out.
I would suggest that you try to find a friend who is your opposite.
Now that I read your post, I have to agree. While I was overseas last fall/winter, I made a friend who was 10 years younger than me and had a ton more energy, but we got along great. If it weren't for her I would not have done at least one social activity every single day during that trip. I had a blast.
I'm really worried about having to go back to my old routine.
But you can't count on her for all of your social activities. At least now you know the key to an active social life....find the right type of friend.
I can't, which is what worries me.
Good luck with the guy!
Hi Zoogurl,
Have you tried participating in social activities?