Not to be depressing or anything...

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Not to be depressing or anything...
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Tue, 09-27-2005 - 11:44pm

I was just sitting here, thinking that I really should be in bed with the lights off by now and realized...NO ONE else is here.

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Thu, 09-29-2005 - 9:33pm

I know exactly how you feel and it is frustrating and I've decided that it's time to stop trying to make things happen with another person, and if Mr. Right is out there (for both of us), we just need to be patient and wait until he finds us :)

Sorry you're feeling down, but you're not alone, it sucks but look at it this way, would you rather be in a relationship with someone you didn't like very much or wait just a bit longer for someone that is going to be everything you want (or pretty damn close?)

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Fri, 09-30-2005 - 9:13am
It's funny - when you mentioned talking about the trials an tribulations of your day, my immediate thought was "And I won't talk to the cats about it because I am so not becoming a crazy old cat lady!" Hehehe
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Fri, 09-30-2005 - 11:25am

I don't have time to read all the replies you've been getting :( but ya know what my reply is?

GET A DOG!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! :D LOL

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Fri, 09-30-2005 - 12:11pm
WOW Rebecca, what an amazing comment you made at the end of your post! Thanks! You are absolutely correct when you say would you rather be alone, and know there is someone out there who is meant to be with you or be with someone just for the sake of being with someone, but being unhappy. I kicked my BF of almost a year out 6 weeks ago and it was because I was unhappy....I guess this differnet loneliness/unhappiness is something I will get through and I knew when I made my choice to be alone again it would be hard. But reading your comments reinforces that I made the right choice and my match (or close enough - lol!) is out there!!! Thanks for your insight :)
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Fri, 09-30-2005 - 12:37pm
Glad to help :)
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Fri, 09-30-2005 - 11:11pm

I dunno about that...


Some single people just get WAY too into their dogs.


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Sat, 10-01-2005 - 9:46am

Don't get me wrong, I love dogs & cats, but IT AIN'T THE SAME!!!

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Sat, 10-01-2005 - 4:11pm
I hate to be the only dissenter in this thread but I think it is GREAT not having to sleep with some hairy, farting, snoring ape! Men are a bad invention - who needs 'em anyway? And this 'there's someone for everyone' is CRAP ...sorry!
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Sun, 10-02-2005 - 4:23am

>And this 'there's someone for
>everyone' is CRAP ...sorry!

Why, have you met everyone?

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Sun, 10-02-2005 - 11:14am
I'm sorry but it is crap - just said to console the lonely. There are plenty of attractive women who go through life alone because they never met the right guy or anyonewho wanted commitment.