not interested-lady advice

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-16-2005
not interested-lady advice
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Tue, 12-27-2005 - 2:21pm

I recently had an awkward exp with a female friend, who at one time I had interest in. Last summer, we were sending each other mixed signals. I thought she had a boyfriend at that time and didn't ask her out. I later learned that she didn't.

She is now dating someone. I suggested that we get together after holiday. She got a bit ticked off. She said she only hang-out with me.

Should I hang out with her after the holiday?

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-19-2003
Wed, 12-28-2005 - 10:08am

I probably wouldn't hang out with her 1) cause she seemed a bit annoyed that you asked and 2) because if she does have a boyfriend, it won't get you any further with her anyway.

She may have only agreed to hang out with you to be nice.