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NOt quite sure how to handle
| Mon, 07-24-2006 - 4:09pm |
So i met this guy about three months ago now. We had mutual friends and it was actually surprising we had not really interacted before. We got along very well. He made the first kind of aggressive mood. Well from there we went out on our first date and it was GREAT! Lasted several hours and we takled the whole time. Well it was the beginning of summer and we both had very busy scheduleds, and he had informed me that for the month of July he would be going away on a backpacking trip through europe. I immediately thought to myself "do not become attached, he is going away"
Well we spent more and more time togeteher, when we could, he was busy travelling iwth work and i was busy with family and so on. SO we fit seeing each other in when we could. It really asn't going anywhere in myeyes i was losing interest and then.... we went out a few more times, he was a really nice guy, and we just got a long so well i still tried to resist. But the weeks precedding his trip we spent a lot of time together and i started having real feelings for him. One night he even dopped the L bomb on me in a drunken flruy. I tried to not take that seriously as he was leaving in a few days and we had just spent a great few days together so i took it as him getting a little carried away. NOw he went off to Europe and I miss him and i heard from him only once! I don't know what to do with the situation now i think about it far too much now and he will be returning in a week. How do i respond to him, should i have expected him to contact me more? What if he doesn't get in touch with me when he returns. I am a ball of nerves, i tried to not like him and now here i am thnking about him hopong he didn't meet some charming european girl whom he swept off her feet. Is any of this fair of me to be worried about?
Well we spent more and more time togeteher, when we could, he was busy travelling iwth work and i was busy with family and so on. SO we fit seeing each other in when we could. It really asn't going anywhere in myeyes i was losing interest and then.... we went out a few more times, he was a really nice guy, and we just got a long so well i still tried to resist. But the weeks precedding his trip we spent a lot of time together and i started having real feelings for him. One night he even dopped the L bomb on me in a drunken flruy. I tried to not take that seriously as he was leaving in a few days and we had just spent a great few days together so i took it as him getting a little carried away. NOw he went off to Europe and I miss him and i heard from him only once! I don't know what to do with the situation now i think about it far too much now and he will be returning in a week. How do i respond to him, should i have expected him to contact me more? What if he doesn't get in touch with me when he returns. I am a ball of nerves, i tried to not like him and now here i am thnking about him hopong he didn't meet some charming european girl whom he swept off her feet. Is any of this fair of me to be worried about?

Did you talk about seeing each other when he got back?