Not sure what to do

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Registered: 06-01-2005
Not sure what to do
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Sun, 04-09-2006 - 11:27pm
Well for the first time in my life I met the most wonderful guy. I met him on plentyoffish. We spent a coupel day talking on her and on the phone then we met. Ok here is the deal a year ago he was in a motocross accedent and he broke his back. % months later his wife well now ex-wife left him. Which caused him to get into a really bad depression. SO last week he put an "ad" in the plentyoffish think looking for friends that is also what I was looking for. So when we met We talked. When we were not talking we were looking into each others eyes. We barly know each other yet we c are so much about each other. It is so crazy we have kissed and now I am afraid that we are gonna loss out friendship. He has told me that he really likes me but I feel liek I am pushing him which is the last thing I want to do. He means so very much to me. He does not go out of his house very often so I told him that I am gonna start taking him out and he is excited. The problem is that I don't know how to stop trying to get him to kiss me. For the first time in a really long time I am truly happy. My life was at rock bottom and now I got a job and I am trying to get my life back together. Then I met him and I am so happy. I just NEVER want to loss him as a friends but I can see us together and I can see us happy. If anyone can just help me out I don't know what to do. Thank you for any help.
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Registered: 11-21-2005
Sun, 04-09-2006 - 11:51pm

If he's trying to kiss you, then you're not pushing him - that sounds more like he's pushing you.

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Registered: 06-01-2005
Mon, 04-10-2006 - 12:57am
Well here is the thing. He was married for 14 years and never looked or touched another women. I was the first he keeps telling me that he is so happy we met and oh my I am the happiest I have been in a long long time. There is so much I want to do with him and he can't wait to get out of his house. I also am starting a new job and the shift is gonna get in our way of seeing eachother. We both have girls my daughter is 8 and his are 4 and 11. I really want to be with him I just don't want to scare him. I just hope things work out for us becasue we both kind of need each other he needs me to help him get out and I need him because he makes me laugh and I have not been able to laugh in a while. It is such an amazing feeling when we look into each others eyes. I am so happy I just hope I do not mess things up