Oh, Go Dear!!!

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Oh, Go Dear!!!
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Sat, 04-19-2003 - 11:34am
We need an IT Guy update! It's been, what, a week? since your warm fuzzy kiss. Anything new to tell us??

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Sat, 04-19-2003 - 3:12pm
Well...we had a great day together yesterday. I introduced him to some of my coworkers and it went great (we had the day off but wanted to paint the office). Then we went shopping, for dinner (he was very impressed that I didn't watch the hockey game but gave him my attention!!)...he hooked up our DVD player and teased me about having one for weeks but not plugging it in. At the video store a little boy (2 yrs old) was crying and pouting but I waved at him and he waved back. He calmed right down...then my cousin brought his daughter home and we all watched the Harry Potter movie. I had Sarah tucked under my right arm cuddling me, IT guy on the left cuddling me - and the cat curled up in my lap. Talk about warm and fuzzies!! He thinks I'm fabulous with kids (I am!) and he LOVES my cat. My cat is pretty smitten too.

But...there is always a but...he almost didn't kiss me good night?!? I gave him a hug and the we did a quick peck on the lips...hmm...I calculate we've spent 26 hrs together (not including phone/email)...and all I get is a quick peck? HUH? Yet, I think he really likes me by the compliments he gives me. So I am just going to take my time and be patient. Maybe he doesn't feel the same, maybe he just wants to be really casual...I think he's well worth the wait.

Thanks for asking!

Go.

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Sat, 04-19-2003 - 3:18pm
I wouldn't worry about it too much. I've had guys tell me that they weren't sure I wanted a second kiss (and I was thinking What the hell???). Maybe he was waiting for you to make a move this time?

It sounds like you had a GREAT time. Don't analyze it, just go with it!

Ahh..I'm so happy for you!

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Registered: 04-03-2003
Sun, 04-20-2003 - 3:30pm
wow sounds like a great time, he also sounds like a great guy i think you should just go with the flow and enjoy it, i'm gonna start taking my own advice...don't start assuming things and overanalyzing things i do that get stressed out and before i know it its over before it started. and as far as him not making a move well you should make the move i found ouut fronm my brother that sometimes guys do that to see if your feeling the same way they are..