Ok girl....this has happened to all....

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Registered: 04-07-2007
Ok girl....this has happened to all....
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Tue, 06-05-2007 - 11:33pm
I had a date this past weekend. It went great! Or so I thought.... We had great conversation, there were a few silences.....but nothing major. He complimented me a few times, on my clothes....newly painted fench manicure....smile....etc. We went to dinner, and then a comedy show...during both we sat really close, and occasionally our legs or shoulders touched...nothing sexual, but still touching. At the end of the night, he said we would do something again, and then he hugged me. No kiss.....either he wasnt into me, or just being respectable.....I dunno. So, now its 4 days later.....no call, no email.....nothing. Whats going on here? Am I just be oblivious to the fact? Before the date.....he called for 5 or 6 days straight....and we would talk for 2 or 3 hours....and it is just odd to go from that much phone conversation, to nothing.....What do you think?
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Registered: 01-20-2005
Wed, 06-06-2007 - 11:36am

Have you tried calling/e-mailing him?
Nothing along the lines of 'Fatal Attraction' & boiling bunnies -- just a 'had a great time!' and 'hope to see you soon' or 'how about drinks this Friday?' or something else that's generally noncommital but also shows you're interested.

After all, this is the 21st century. Women are allowed to contact men. Plus, you'll be able to tell from his response/non-response whether you should hang around or move on. (After all, he might be out of town tending to his sick momma & just hasn't had time to get back with you.)