Okay different question...
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| Wed, 07-18-2007 - 12:57pm |
Okay so if you read my OP, different question on the same subject...
What's the RIGHT thing to do?
I'm conflicted. He did want to go on this trip but because he's not so bright and didn't plan ahead he can't go. Fair enough.
As a good girlfriend, what's the right thing to do? I know what *I* want to do and to tell him "too bad, so sad." But is that the correct thing?
If this situation were reversed, how would I feel?
"Stand By Your Man" and being forgiving and being flexible keep going through my mind. But what about "Stand By Your Woman?" What about being responsible and acting like a grown up and taking other people's situations (like your girlfriend) into consideration?
He suggested my taking off a few days during this vacation time in August when we can go instead together on a drive somewhere closeby. Like one of the wineries. I don't WANT to go to a **** winery - we can do that over a weekend!
He has told me that I can be selfish at times. So what is the RIGHT thing to do? Men - please weigh in on this. I need help making a decision.

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Dump him. You are buying temporary comfort with this man in exchange for major compromises. And it has nothing to do with your disrupted vacation plans - at least not directly.
Edited 7/19/2007 2:42 pm ET by c2shiningc
I am so glad you have decided to take the trip. I lived in Mexico for 7 years and love the place.
Just be safe so you can tell us about your adventures when you return.
Beach
I didn't get to do this before but wanted to say I'm glad you responded to this question - I knew you had lived there previously - so I was really hoping you would give me some great info! Thanks!
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