One night into a relationship?

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Registered: 07-17-2006
One night into a relationship?
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Wed, 06-06-2007 - 11:29pm

a few months ago i slept with a friend i had started getting to know. he started calling me and asked me out to dinner in the next few days after. i didnt trust his intentions because i thought it was strange, stemming from a one night stand.

i guess i was wrong because he was around for a while.not too long, but more than "normal." i guess a couple without the title, but it eventually went away.

have any of you had a one night stand turn into a (serious)actual relationship? how did that go?

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iVillage Member
Registered: 05-30-2007
Thu, 06-07-2007 - 10:10pm

Be careful . . but not impossible. . . I have gotten there that fast.
I have also wanted a “repeat” . . . kind of honest over the years.

A heart is a hard thing to risk. Sex . . .never as hard to me. One heals quickly, one hurts much longer. In that men and women are the same.

What do "you" see hapening?

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Registered: 05-17-2007
Thu, 06-07-2007 - 10:26pm

yes, a one night stand turned into a 5 month relationship.

I knew her slightly before hand, and knew she was interested in me... One night at a party we ended up hooking up, and then we hung around with each other for the entire next day, grabbed dinner... and we pretty much fell for each other. I mean, things were odd at first, we had to get passed a relationship founded on sex, but after a few weeks things were very normal.

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Registered: 02-12-2007
Tue, 06-12-2007 - 10:49am
I'm going through a similar thing in that I hooked up with a random last Thursday night never really expecting anything to come out of it and we are headed on our "first date" tonight. I still don't really expect anything...but I do question his intentions. I always thought that one-night stands were meant to be just that? But from what I read, I guess sometimes they do work out? I'm just not sure how to handle the first date POST hookup...I'm not used to going in reverse order.

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