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| Mon, 12-03-2007 - 3:49pm |
Hi,
I've been lurking on this message board for awhile and finally today I felt compelled to ask for some help.
| Mon, 12-03-2007 - 3:49pm |
Hi,
I've been lurking on this message board for awhile and finally today I felt compelled to ask for some help.
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Hi, I sympathize with your posting so much. I am 29, live in NYC, and almost the only single one left too! I too
My suggestion is to clear out some time in your calendar and consider joining a sinbles social group so you can meet more single girlfriends and try and meet single men together. I belonged to several ad met a few good girlfriends to do things with while trying to find men. Meetup.com has tons of groups nationwide. And there is also Meetin.org. Both have groups citywide.
The best thing a single girl can have is single girlfriends. Good luck!
Thank you both!!!
I feel for ya!
this is crazy! i just read ur post and thought it was Me looking back at myself! i'm a 27 NYer, the last single one in my group of friends and also have a younger sister who's 23...strange...
anyway, i'm also in the NYC area, and last week two (count em two) of my friends announced their engagements within hours of eachother, leaving me the last single one in my childhood group of friends as well. so i totally feel ya. i was upset too. but i had to pick myself up, i mean come on! what are we supposed to do? just sit around waiting on life to begin just because we're not coupled up yet? i refuse to do that!
I'm 27, attractive, single, and have plenty going for me to be considered a catch, and i refuse to settle for anyone just b/c everyone else around me has. and you shouldn't either!! your friends' lives are theirs to live, and yours is precious and unique as is. enjoy and embrace your single years, and while your busy loving yourself and exploring things u can do while single, you'll probably run into someone who's worth settling down with...NO rush! :)
PS there's plenty of us out there, we're not supposed to be in a race to get married...that'll just make u miserable..focus on enjoying life instead....
Anna
Anna
Thanks again for the advice.
I can certainly relate. I have been struggling with whether or not to take an FWB as a date to a holiday party this weekend, simply because everyone who will be there is married. I am so tired of being the only single girl at these events.
Good luck,
YG
http://twodatediva.blogspot.com/
YG
http://twodatediva.blogspot.com/
Hey don't worry all of those friends will be single again in the next 2 - 10 years! LOL
By then you'll be the one in a partnership and wishing you were single like all your friends will be.
Embrace the things you are able to enjoy whilst single. I have been married before and apart from the double-income I am having a tough time seeing what the advantage was!
If you marry one of those great guys who actually really loves his wife and knows how to fix something in the house, stays faithful, works the entire time, has goals, etc
I truly believe the reason "most" of us "end up with an individual that doesn't know what he wants out of life and in reality doesn't know how to do cr*p, but add to your stress level." is because we allow ourselves to do so.
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