Opinions please

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Registered: 04-15-2006
Opinions please
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Sat, 04-15-2006 - 5:49pm
I have been dating someone for 6 weeks. In the beginning, it was more of a "friend" relationship, but 3 weeks ago we took it to the next level and began going on "real" dates and kissing/making out. Last night we had sex. Do you think it was too soon? In the last 3 weeks we've hung out 6 times. I don't want him to get the wrong impression of me and think I'm some drunk slut and that's all I can be too him. What's your opinion?
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Registered: 03-26-2003
In reply to: kimmer522
Sat, 04-15-2006 - 6:20pm

If he's right for you, it's not too soon, and if he's not, then no amount of waiting would be long enough.

Only time will tell which it is in this case...but I honestly don't understand why couples don't just *talk* about this stuff...I mean, if you feel comfortable enough with him to sleep with him, why not *talk* to him about any concerns you might have?

Sheri

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Registered: 03-20-2003
In reply to: kimmer522
Mon, 04-17-2006 - 4:18pm

How you feel about it is all that really matters.