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Tue, 11-15-2005 - 1:38pm
In dating, online dating, any dating when a guy won't meet for coffee, etc. on the weekend (Saturday or Sunday) what do you think that means? Thanks for your feedback in advance.
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Registered: 06-22-2005
In reply to: lwaksmon
Tue, 11-15-2005 - 2:11pm
He is either married or has a girlfriend.
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Registered: 06-30-2005
In reply to: lwaksmon
Tue, 11-15-2005 - 5:02pm
Thank you. I thought it could be something like that. Where have all the good honest ready to make a committment guys gone?
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Registered: 04-13-2004
In reply to: lwaksmon
Tue, 11-15-2005 - 7:15pm
Wait a second... NEVER wants to meet on the weekend or just in the beginning of dating?? Personally, when I am just meeting somebody and the jury is out on whether I want to move forward with this guy, I prefer dates during the week. My weekends are precious to me and if I am not sure of the guy, then I prefer not to meet them on the weekends...
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Registered: 03-26-2003
In reply to: lwaksmon
Tue, 11-15-2005 - 7:28pm

It would have to be a pattern before I'd jump to any conclusion about it.

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Registered: 03-20-2003
In reply to: lwaksmon
Tue, 11-15-2005 - 9:47pm

If he never wants to meet on a weekend (as in after several dates), then something else is more important to him on the weekends.

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Registered: 04-12-2005
In reply to: lwaksmon
Wed, 11-16-2005 - 11:27am

"Where have all the good honest ready to make a committment guys gone?"

Most men have heard too many horror stories of other men getting married and ending up:

1) Having no freedom whatsoever because their wives are control freaks
2) Being the sole provider for a family because their wives do not want to go back to work after having children
3) Getting divorced and losing half of their assets

It's hard to figure out who is to blame. Men are trying to regain their identity after years of being under assault from feminists and our hyper-feminized media. Unfortunately this has drastically decreased the interest that men now have in getting married...

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Registered: 09-01-2005
In reply to: lwaksmon
Wed, 11-16-2005 - 1:16pm
WOW, that's a depressing generalization.
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Registered: 08-09-2004
In reply to: lwaksmon
Wed, 11-16-2005 - 3:50pm
It could mean he is married, has a steady girlfriend, or a fiance. Either that, or he has a job that requires him to work on weekends.