Performance Anxiety?! Really, get over it already.

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Registered: 02-26-2011
Performance Anxiety?! Really, get over it already.
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Wed, 04-25-2012 - 1:17am

Went out with Dutch guy tonight, to whom I have made it clear verbally that I am only interested in an FWB relationship.

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Registered: 07-16-2001

You are his arm candy, as he is yours.

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Registered: 02-26-2011

Thanks, Julia and Shy. No, I've never had a drink in my life, although I've had a few sips - enough to know I'm highly allergic. That's verbatim what he said about the wine, but I married an alcoholic, so I'm SUPER sensitive to alcohol consumption. Most men I date are like me or very light drinkers.

Shy, it's already too late.

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Registered: 07-16-2001
Well, in the future use the code "come over for a visit". That is, if you find another guy you just want to have sex with. Don't meet for dinner. No drinks. Just tell him you want a visit. Once you have a code word, it's easier to let the other person know your true intentions for the meeting.
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Registered: 02-26-2011

GREAT idea, Shy!

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Registered: 01-25-2010

Hotel,motel,Holiday Inn!!!!!!!!!!Chicken_in_nest.gif

chaika

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Registered: 02-26-2011

Weird Twist!

I told you all that I texted him basically, "Don't call me, I'll call you" and that was it.

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Registered: 01-25-2010

Communication is the KEY!

chaika

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Registered: 04-29-2012

my husband always has trouble performing after loud music so I always turn it up 

 

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