Phone call question
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| Thu, 02-16-2006 - 2:33pm |
Hello all. I need a little female advice (I'm a guy), and I figured this might be a good place to ask. I was set up by a friend on a blind date (bullied into it really), and to my pleasant surprise, it went rather well. We hit it off, I stayed over at her insistence(on the couch) and parted with nothing more than a friendly hug the next morning. The friend who set us up works with her and told me that she was "giddy" at work that morning and said she had a great time (and thanked him for the setup). She had a friend coming into town that day (Thurs) for the weekend, so I waited till the end of the weekend to call her. I got her voice mail and left a message.
I should note that both her and my friend are doctors (residents) and work crazy hours. I d/n hear back from her till the following Thurs, when i was in a seminar that went through the weekend. During the days in between, I couldn't get a hold of my friend b/c he was so busy at the hospital (so I guess she was too). I called her that Saturday (the seminar took up all my time Thurs and Fri), and she was in another state on vacation (she had told me previously she was leaving for two weeks but I was not sure when). She said she would call me when she got back into town. She was supposed to get back this past weeknd. I haven't heard from her. Should I try to call her now, or just let it go (it's been almost a month since we've seen each other). Any help would be greatly appreciated...

Not to be old fashioned, but you're the guy. Call her! We women have been told that men like the chase, so she might be feeling like you will do the calling (at least at first) if you're interested. If you don't call, she might take it as you are "just not that into her."
You really have nothing to lose - I mean, the girl was "giddy." Believe me, we women don't get giddy over just any old guy. You made an impression. :)
AJ, enjoying life with C.
I'm going to echo what everyone else is saying CALL HER!!!