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The Phone Number Game
| Wed, 03-08-2006 - 10:40am |
Hi Everyone,
I'm relatively new to this board and realized I never introduced myself. My name is Dominique and live in the NY Metro area.
So I was wondering if I could ask a question of all the guys on this board (and ladies too, of course). Could you explain to me why guys ask for a girl's number and then don't call? I really just don't get it. Why waste time getting the number, putting it in your phone, getting the spelling of her name right, etc and then not use it? I'm sure there's a few different reasons and I'd love to hear any and all of them. This has been happening to me a lot lately and it's getting annoying.
Thanks.
Dominique

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Actually, the guy I was talking about I've known for about two years. He's a friend of my best friend's ex-boyfriend and we tend to hang out at the same places. I've hung out with him on a number of occasions at different bars when we happen to meet. We always flirted a bit but nothing. I got excited a few weekends ago when he asked for my number and told me he'd wanted to ask for a while but thought I wasn't interested. But then he never called. Maybe he did lose his nerve.
But I have given guys my number on the first meeting and never got a call. So you suggest I state straight out that I don't give my number at a first meeting and let's meet up next week to see how it goes? I would think some guys would get turned off by that.
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