PHONE TAPPING or BLACKMAILING ???
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PHONE TAPPING or BLACKMAILING ???
| Sat, 11-12-2005 - 12:33pm |
Ok ... i'm very pissed off, shocked, and scared to use my cell phone anymore... here i go... last night i was supposed to meet up with the guy i have been seeing for 2 weeks now... well maybe 3... but before that, this other guy calls me that i have known him for 3 years cuz we are both in the military and he was in town, so i just wanted to see what he was up to and hang out with him for an hour then go see the guy that i was seeing for 3 weeks. my military friend, left me a voicemail saying that he wanted to see me in front of this one doughnut shop. the guy im seeing for 3 weeks, called me after 30 minutes sounding all innocent and stuff, says lets meet up, cuz originally we were supposed to go out eat, then movies then beach. the typical thing... so happens when i sit in his car, i can already smell the wierdness in the air, and the way he is acting around me and stuff, becuase it so happens that he works for the city's police department.anyways. he slowly and slowly tries to pull words out of my mouth by dialing my cell phone and tells me not to pick up. so that he can make me hear the voicemail on my own cell phone that the other guy left me... he doesn't know my password, it's a police way of tapping someone's VM. but i had deleted it prior to seeing this freak. anyways... the whole point is that is he allowed to do that? he didn't have a written consent. i mean i understand he is a cop and all that and he thinks he is all that, but i feel like i cant talk to anyone on my cell phone no more... how can i stop this... i feel like my privacy is invaded big time. it's not like i was gonna go do SOMETHING physical with my military friend... i was simply gonna go see him for an hour becuase he lives on military post, and so happens he was in town... HELP please... i need to stop this... he told me he can even track computer activity.... cant wait to hear from u guys.... bye.

I'm not sure that I follow the story.
He can't do that.
This guy is a freak who has either watched you entering your PIN, guessed your PIN or spent way too much time trying number combinations to guess your PIN.
In any case, I would stay away from this guy. He is possessive and jealous and if he is behaving this way after such a short time, just imagine what he would be like after 6 months or a year.
What he did is absolutely NOT allowed and if you report him, he could even be dismissed. Don't worry about having evidence. The authorities have ways of tracing the 'tapping' process. He must have a code in order to retrieve your messages. They trace the code.
He abused the power given to him through the state - an abuse that in my opinion absolutely constitutes an invasion of privacy. You not only need to report him but get far, far away from him. That's scary, stalkerish behaviour.
Be thankful you discovered this frightening side of his behaviour early on.
if i were you i would lock my doors, windows, change my phone numbers and tell him that you dont want to be in a relationship with him because you are not ready.
He does sound abusive, controling, and downright abusive of his employment authority.
he may even have your puter tapped and be able to read these posts. after all he has access to all the fun police tech stuff. If he can track your phone he can track your puter and your car...um..get your car to a garage and have them do a mirror under the car check for any tracking devices.
I don't mean to scare you...i am just forwarning you to be safe and use your brain not your heart.
God Bless.