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please help out this noob
| Mon, 02-13-2012 - 10:32pm |
Hi all, I'm a guy hoping to get some female perspectives :)
There was this really hot professional girl at my workplace (we work in different roles in different depts in a huge company so it might as well be two different companies in the same campus) who was sharing some stares with me.
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Hi! Welcome to the board!
Thanks guys!
Having been a bartender for many years in my 20s, I agree that friendliness while
Valleyscrub, you sound like a really good guy.
That's a GREAT idea, cfk!
Thanks for the replies, took a while to digest. I'm closer to 30 than 25 :) focused on career exclusively for too long.
When available, were you ladies comfortable with an attempt at contact info or meetup after exchanging names and a few jokes or was that too soon? I know that sometimes draws a reflexive "no" answer.
Actually, I'm not sure offering his number would help, seeing how so many women of all ages still believe the man needs to work for them and hunt them down and wouldn't be the first to call a guy even if they were interested and knew with some degree of certainty that the guy was interested too... I find that stupid and really sad, but it's how a lot of people in my generation think and they're almost creating the expectation that women who do call first are "lower grade" than those who wait for the man to make the first step.
As far as the problem at hand is concerned, I too would suggest that you try to get to know these girls better and, in the process, find out if they're available for dating and, who knows, you might even get a hint as to what they expect from a guy. THAT would give you a nice heads-up!
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