PROMIScuity (part II)

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PROMIScuity (part II)
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Mon, 07-09-2007 - 2:12pm

Another ?

If its NOT statistics that are much of a greater concern for most guys to favor whom they select as partners, then why do predominantly most guys prefer to commit to marry less inexperienced/virgin -like girls THAN the girls they KNOW that has been with more than a dozen of partners (whether in previous, yet failed relationships and or casual encounters)?

Thank you for your honest opinions.

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Mon, 07-09-2007 - 2:17pm

What! Is that why no one wants to marry me? How did I miss that. I have no answers though I do know my 8-year ex married a virgin.

Course I think he stupidly believes it absolved his sins and will get him into heaven. Dummy!

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Mon, 07-09-2007 - 2:43pm
I really just don't see this as the case with guys I know and/or have dated. In fact, we rarely even talk about numbers. As long as the sex is good, I don't think they really care! :) I don't have THAT much experience and have always been a bit of a late bloomer and I was actually afraid/embarrassed to reveal that to some of the people I've dated in the past.
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Mon, 07-09-2007 - 4:30pm

I have yet to meet a man who was disappointed that I wasn't a virgin.

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Mon, 07-09-2007 - 4:33pm
I just made the question up. I had an different board topic and just wanted random opinions. Obviously it is s2pid. loll Thx doe
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Mon, 07-09-2007 - 4:36pm

I just wondered if maybe the guys you've dated have told you this, or maybe if you'd read it somewhere.

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Mon, 07-09-2007 - 6:26pm
oopsie...accident. don't know how to delete!


Edited 7/9/2007 6:27 pm ET by japdiv
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Mon, 07-09-2007 - 6:27pm
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Edited 7/10/2007 9:23 am ET by elwood1960
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Thu, 07-12-2007 - 6:41pm

Hey there,

A married mans answer (20s). Well, interesting question. I personally dont care myself if a women is experienced, but i think the reason could be because "these men" want to be with someone that is pure (in some sense). I guess guys want to feel that they can show a women everything so that they feel accomplished that they were the "first" to do this and that, etc.

Sex doesn't make a relationship. I feel "these guys" you speak about might be on the insecure side. Dont worry there's a world of guys out there.

I dont know if you can relate it to ego...lol, but thats my 2 cents.

Take Care.