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Pubic hair question
| Wed, 11-23-2005 - 5:41pm |
I am dating this really great guy. He is the most polite, respectful, sexy, romantic man- BUT~ his pubic hair is OUT OF CONTROL. Body hair in general really turns me off, and when i first saw his body i didn't think anything of it. he is smooth and clean. but down south it is so nasty. his pubic hair is like 4 inches long (and straight-mind you). I don't know what to do, he is so awesome. it's a shame that i can't get past this. How do i approach him?

If he says he won't ever shave down there, then maybe ask him "how about just trimming it short?"
I've encounted the same problem in the past. I handled it by planning a very sexual night. I lit candles, turned on low music, and gave him a full body massage. Before massaging a particular part of his body, I took off that article of clothing. (When I was working on his back, I took off his shirt and my shirt)
By the end of the massage, we were both nude. At that point, when he was really relaxed, I told him that I've been told men are much more sensitive when their testicles are shaven. I told him I wanted to shave him which I did over a towel right in my bed. While I was doing that, I continued to take care of everything else. He LOVED it! It was both relaxing and sensual for him.
The next morning I told him how much I loved the night before and his new 'look' is really a turn on for me. He loved that night so much that he kept that look for the rest of the time we were together. (He might still have it for his new girlfriend for all I know).
Good luck!
wow. ok. try this.
i heard many years ago that a shaved private part can be extremely erotic in the area of enjoyment during intercourse. I tried it too. I shaved myself first and explored it with my then hubby(now X) who still had his pubic hair. After a few times i made the suggestion to him that maybe he could shave too and see how it felt for him to be cleanshaven in the pubic area(i even did this for my recent X-bf i just left a while back).
The results were unanymous. My X-hubby loved the feeling and had kept himself shaved since. My former beau, tried it once, liked it for the change, but eventually let the hair grow back in. However, he did keep it trimmed thereafter so he wasn't a bushy forest for me.
Oh...its even more erotic if YOU shave him.
luck to both of ya.
Yeah....I can just imagine a guy's reaction to waking up during that!