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Question about approaching women
| Sun, 05-28-2006 - 10:47pm |
I am a 25 year old male. How do women like to be approached outside of bars and dance clubs? I don't go to bars or dance clubs.
Please only advice/ opinions from women. I mean what is an appropriate thing to say to a woman when approaching her at the mall, in a book store, coffee shop, on the street?

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For me, a guy approaching me as I am walking down the street or through a mall would be weird. (Hey lady, I've seen you walk down this street alone for the last 3 weeks....creepy) An extreme example, but it gets my point across.
I would be much more comfortable with an approach at a bookstore (do you enjoy that author, would you recommend that series, I enjoyed that book when I read it), at the grocery store (how can you tell a cantaloupe is fresh, do you see any single-serving size steaks?), or even a restaurant (I notice you are here by yourself, do you mind sharing the table?).
It is a matter of finding something in common and commenting on it. That makes the thing in common the focus of the first couple of exchanges and is less threatening. From there, just see if it goes and where.
Good luck.
I don't know about that. I'm different in that way. I'd rather a guy not approach me just because he thought I was attractive. That's sort of shallow. There has to be some sort of intellectual connection.
But that's just me. In your case, just a "Hello" would probably do.
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