Question about saving it for marriage
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Question about saving it for marriage
| Tue, 10-17-2006 - 1:39pm |
On The Bachelor series, there is this woman who is 23 and told the Bachelor she is saving herself for marriage. She seems to believe this will enhance her value in his eyes. He told her he never would have asked her if she was a virgin or not, in the first place (it didn't matter to him).
Do men these days really care? Do they want that woman who is saving herself? DO women want a man who is saving himself?

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>>I think her argument is geared more towards sex before marriage and the lack of committment that is involved in some of those relationships. <<
Agreed, but having sex before marriage does not necessarily mean you are doomed to end up in a non-committed relationship, either.
I think the important thing here is that each of us must know ourselves well enough to make our own decisions in that area. Iri does. I do. You do. So, that's good. I think the danger comes when someone has sex - or doesn't - based on pressure from the outside world one way or the other. It has to be a personal choice, in my opinion.
AJ, enjoying life with C.
I don't think guys really care.
But I've run across a lot of guys who have this weird thing for virgins.
I'm a virgin and I know a guy who says, "I want to be the first" a lot.
I'm pretty sure it's not because he actually likes me - I think it's more of an "I'd be taking someone's virginity" type of thing.
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