Question - hard to stay away

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Registered: 04-20-2003
Question - hard to stay away
Tue, 04-22-2003 - 9:53pm
First of all, thank you everyone for your input on my first posting. It helped get my head on straight! Once it's on straight then you begin to see things clearer.

I realize what I have to do regarding this guy. The problem is, he is involved in a group that I will keep on seeing. This is something that I can't give up because it's too important to me.

First question... Should I call him and tell him how I feel, and question him about the STD's, or should I wait and do it in person, since I will be seeing him basically on a weekly basis.

Second question... How exactly should I say it to him? I want to tell him, that I've heard some stuff and it's something that I don't want to get myself into, and also to tell him that I don't want just a rebound sex relationship, and that's all that I see him looking at this as. I also want to keep it kind of cool, because I don't want it to get weird among the group.

Any ideas? I won't be seeing him this coming up weekend. So hopefully that will help cool things down, and I don't plan on calling him, (he just gave me his number last weekend).