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Question....dating and single girls
| Fri, 04-27-2007 - 3:36pm |
So...women always complain that men are not honest and are not true to them....I can understand why women feel that way, because guys cheat on them left and right to boost their self esteem, but why do women think that all men are alike........it makes it so hard to meet and break through the front that women have to get to know them that its like trying to ice skate on hot water....I guess its better to get it from the source since I believe the majority (im guessing) of the readers of these blogs are women, if not I apologize, but its better to get it from the source, than anyone else.....any suggestions.......all comments are greatly appreciated .....Thanks .....
Alex

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Hello and welcome to the board.
I've never been cheated on, nor have I ever assumed a man is going to cheat on me.
Edited 4/27/2007 8:59 pm ET by cfk_3
Now another question......kinda funny actually.....so check this out.....Im at a bar this really good looking girl comes in, everyone is staring at the girl for obvious reasons shes really gorgeous.........Im sittin next to my friend and after a while he says lets go ask her to dance, now I will admit Im shy when it comes to that but after seeing she was turning guys down left and right to dance with her, killed it even more for me.....the bar wasnt that crowded and it was obvious she was turning these guys down.....well after seeing all this I figured damn Im going to be one of these guys getting dissed like that, and I did not ask her to dance......well last call comes along and her and her friends are leaving and what does she do? she stops by my table and blows ME a kiss, astounded, I blow one right back at her, now knowing what to do I stayed and didnt purue further......what an ASS i am at least thats how i felt and feel lol......so heres the thing she was at the other side of the bar and i couldnt even tell that she was into me at all......so what should I have done in that situation after the frozen me......and how should I have approached it with this whole dissin left and right........take in consideration Im shy and Im not aggresive when it comes to going up to girls and going after them like others do.....how should I approach it from now on...suggestions please......and scenarios would be great lol
I can tell you that those other guys, the ones who you probably thought were schmucks? They got it over with and after the sting of rejection faded, they probably moved on to other women. They may have even gotten to dance with a few. Because you were gun shy, you basically wasted your evening sitting there *thinking* about asking this girl to dance.
Just ask. You aren't really out anything. Girls won't sit there and diss you once you've walked away. If the girl says no, just try not to let it get to you, don't let it show. Smile, tell her to have a good time and move on. If you feel awkward, you can always move on to another place or, just move somewhere within the club where you can't see her, so you don't have to think about it.
Don't focus on one girl either. Pick out a few. If there is one girl who makes you particularly nervous, ask her to dance after you have already been out on the dance floor a couple of times. This will do two things: it may work off some nervous energy and her seeing you out on the dance floor with other girls will tell her that you are more than likely, a fun guy.
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