Quick question

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Registered: 06-20-2006
Quick question
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Wed, 01-31-2007 - 1:51pm
I'm recently single and wanted to get back out there and start dating. I ended up meeting this guy and I'm starting to have feelings for him. The only problem is I slept with him way to soon ( a little slutty I know) now I'm getting the impression that's all it's going to be. I haven't been calling him at all and he'll call me but it's only on the weekends. So my question is, is there a way to tell a guy that you want more than just the every other weekend hang outs? Thanks

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Registered: 07-30-2004
Mon, 02-19-2007 - 11:28am

R, you are clueless.

Obviously no one here is wondering if men like quick and easy sex. That is a truism. She does not think that the man will be upset, lol.

Women often wait to have sex with men that they like for several reasons. 1) because many people still judge women by a double standard and women can be afraid that the guy will not respect her as a person and potential long-term partner if she sleeps with him too fast.

2) Many men will stay in a relationship for sex even if they are not that interested in other things. If a woman sleeps with a man too soon than she cannot tell as easily if he is actually interested in her as a person or if he is just going along for the sex. If she waits than she can be more confident in his level of interest.

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