Relying on oneself

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Registered: 02-26-2011
Relying on oneself
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Wed, 11-30-2011 - 10:58pm

Got home from exercise to an email from Mr Smith telling me he needs to cancel our plan to get together next week (business reason) and that his family just announced they'll be flying in on Dec 20 to spend 3 weeks with him for the holiday. Now I won't see him until January, and that just won't work for me.

Mr Hot n Cold has sent a half dozen texts since he got back, including several from his office today, but made no move to suggest we get together.

The man I thought I might go see in Chicago in January, a lost love from 9 years ago, who is incredibly interesting, smart and sexy, called this morning to uninvite me from coming to visit him.

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Registered: 01-25-2010
Thu, 12-01-2011 - 10:27pm

Heheheheheehehee that little cousin 2423 th removed.

dragowoman

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Registered: 02-26-2011
Thu, 12-01-2011 - 10:07pm

Well, obviously you're wrong about that.

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Registered: 01-25-2010
Thu, 12-01-2011 - 10:04pm

Wrong species:

Dragons do not have bushy tails!

dragowoman

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Registered: 01-25-2010
Thu, 12-01-2011 - 10:03pm

Wrong species:

Dragons do not have bushy tails!

dragowoman

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Registered: 02-26-2011
Thu, 12-01-2011 - 9:02pm

Bull-onie-onie, xxxs!

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Registered: 01-25-2010
Thu, 12-01-2011 - 6:08pm

I have no one but myself everyone has their own life and I have to get mine together.

dragowoman

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Registered: 01-02-2008
Thu, 12-01-2011 - 2:36pm

A very true statement because for me I have loved and due to circumstances I couldnt stick around. I remember a guy I knew a thousand years ago.. He told me I was the love of his life. I loved him but the timing was wrong.. He asked me to marry him for like 7 years. I couldnt do it and he then one day told me he was marrying someone else. I said okay.. He said I dont love her but I wont be alone anymore and wait for you. I love you but you wont commit.. So we both moved on.. I was crushed.

I married my 2ndH and loved him to pieces.. Into the third year of marriage he started abusing me.. so I had to leave him.. I cried for two years knowing he probably didnt love me.

Reminds me of sex and the city where Samantha breaks up with young hunky bfriend. she says I love You but I love me more..so she leaves him. (so sad)

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Registered: 01-02-2008
Thu, 12-01-2011 - 2:31pm

oh; thank you.. Love and kisses to all of you.

Hey; Its not turning out so bad today.. MY HS crush guy has been talking to me and its been fun... He says that I dissed him in HS and its payback time (just kidding).... I hope.

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Registered: 05-11-2010
Thu, 12-01-2011 - 2:11pm

I think without expounding on my details, because this is not my post, but it was love, maybe not to you or someone else, but it was.

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Registered: 02-26-2011
Thu, 12-01-2011 - 11:15am

Free,

Have a nice day!

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