The Sad End to What Could Have Been a Beautiful Love Story

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Registered: 02-26-2011
The Sad End to What Could Have Been a Beautiful Love Story
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Thu, 04-19-2012 - 7:22pm

I know I've posted about the man who went back home to allegedly take care of his daughter numerous times, but it's hard to see where I wrote what before because of these tears in my eyes.

Forgive me.

Let this be a warning to all who would repeat my folly, dating a man whose divorce had 3 months before it was final. I wish I'd listened to those of you who warned me..

You were right.

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Registered: 01-02-2008

wow and I know and feel exactly as you say.. Its like when I do something out of the box that doesnt seem normal I am always finding myself saying oh; I confess this or that ..

yeah; fill in the blanks.. BINGO

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Registered: 02-26-2011

the more independent I get the worse off it seems to finding a man who will deal with it.. but I have no choice right now. I have no one to lean on..

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Registered: 01-02-2008

Oh; Thank Goodness.. I just wrote a post to you addressing this right before you wrote yours.

Yes; All good ideas and you deserve so much better than this guy.. and dont settle as we say.. You are still fairly young and have a lot going for you and there is Mr. Right out there for you.. Now for the two of you to find each other .. Now that is the 10 million dollar question?? (lol)

By the way I think its healthy to want a man and not need one and yet I think most men want us to need them. I do know the more independent I get the worse off it seems to finding a man who will deal with it.. but I have no choice right now. I have no one to lean on..

Oh; I guess once again there has to be a balance to all of this.. But then how do we stay true to ourselves , independent and vulnerable all at the same time??

Anybody??/

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Registered: 01-02-2008

why did you think what shy wrote was funny... I think its true but I didnt find any humor in it...and I have a huge sense of humor.

That comment I thought was kinda pathetic on his part anyway...

But I agree that when he and his wife get into the cycle of coming and going he will most likely turn to you

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Registered: 02-26-2011

Clarity this morning:

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Registered: 02-26-2011

ROFL!

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Registered: 04-21-2008

Thanks!

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Marina, I wish you comfort now, wisdom later and happiness always.

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Registered: 11-28-1999

OK -- have you ever heard that saying that the opposite of love is indifference?

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Hi Tasha new pic new haircut looks good!

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