Settling

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Registered: 06-06-2003
Settling
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Sat, 01-07-2012 - 7:43am

There have been many discussions on this and really thought at this stage of the game that settling was

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iVillage Member
Registered: 02-26-2011
In reply to: camult
Sat, 01-07-2012 - 10:49am

I agree! Chemistry is the wild card!

iVillage Member
Registered: 06-06-2003
In reply to: camult
Sat, 01-07-2012 - 4:25pm

No it's not chemisty.

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-02-2008
In reply to: camult
Sat, 01-07-2012 - 4:49pm

I dont understand if its not chemistry than what is it?? Like it could be some'in' some'in and some sort of connection with someone whatever that may be

iVillage Member
Registered: 06-06-2003
In reply to: camult
Sat, 01-07-2012 - 5:59pm

I think there are people we meet in our life, even for a few hours that we would really like to stick around.

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-26-2011
In reply to: camult
Sat, 01-07-2012 - 6:34pm

I protest that assuming one might instantly know "what another is like" is equated with the psychological term "projection", which is the phase BEFORE you are capable of really seeing the person for who they truly are.

iVillage Member
Registered: 06-06-2003
In reply to: camult
Sat, 01-07-2012 - 6:42pm

Well, protest how much you want, but when someome comes along that is just is honest and nice, they don't come off any other way, they can't.

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Registered: 01-02-2008
In reply to: camult
Sat, 01-07-2012 - 6:49pm

oh; I know what you mean because I have two guy friends who I am so comfortable around and we are out true selves around each other but I cant see myself kissing or having sex with either of them... I also know men in daily life that I am easy around but I dont have much chemistry with them and have no desire to date them..

I know what you might be

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Registered: 09-25-2010
In reply to: camult
Sat, 01-07-2012 - 8:00pm
I thinking clicking plus chemistry are important.
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Registered: 10-16-2006
In reply to: camult
Sun, 01-08-2012 - 6:51am

I'm curious--are the dentist and engineer men you met online?

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-21-2011
In reply to: camult
Mon, 01-09-2012 - 11:31am

Clicking + Chemistry = Great Relationship

At least that's what I think would be the definition of NOT settling, and we deserve all that and more

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