Sex with the ex?
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| Sun, 04-22-2007 - 6:21pm |
I went out last night & my ex was there. To be honest I have NEVER managed to get over him completely. He was my first love, first guy to break my heart. We are civil to each other, but don't really talk. I always see him out because we belong to the same circle of friends. After the bar had closed a few of us went back to my friends flat to continue the party. We were all drunk by this stage. My ex was there, he lives in the flat below. At some stage I went to the toilet, my ex followed me & was waiting outside the door. Whatever happened next, I dont remember, but we carried each other downstairs to his flat, his bedroom to be exact & one thing led to another really. We have been around each other drunk on numerous occassions & nothing has ever happened. Knowing my luck he was drunk & horny & I was the nearest female to him.
My friend says she doubts he would treat me like that considering our history. What are your opinions? I just found it bizzare that this only happened last night, out of nowhere and in a normal situation, we see each other about a lot. When I left this morning, we didnt really talk much, but he seemed okay- he didnt come across as having any regrets, but you never know.

I would be careful with this one. You say that you never got over him, so you should be looking out for you. Everyone has "mistakes" like this, people are drunk, they forget their "rules" and just go with the flow, but usually, that's just what it is. I wouldn't make a big deal out of this and bring it up to him because that will make him uncomfortable and things awkward for when you do see him again.
In my opinion, sex with an ex never leads anywhere.
"I would be careful with this one. You say that you never got over him, so you should be looking out for you. Everyone has "mistakes" like this, people are drunk, they forget their "rules" and just go with the flow, but usually, that's just what it is. I wouldn't make a big deal out of this and bring it up to him because that will make him uncomfortable and things awkward for when you do see him again."
I 100% second this. Personally I've been in the position where I don't think I've ever gotten over an ex (still haven't completely) and man would I love to have sex with him one last time but if I did, I know I would be back to square one of trying to move past him again. You really need to do what's right for you in this situation and if there are any doubts in your mind that it might bring back a lot of old feelings, it's not a good thing to do.