I do think I'd tell him that I didn't want to have a relationship that's just about sex and not about anything else and that by all the sex talk, it makes me feel that's all he's interested in and he's no longer interested in me as a person.
mhash... i am 30 and he is 38. When I asked him what he was looking for
No having sex on first date of 10 seconds after meeting is not a bad thing.
XXXS, wow! Thank you for helping me to see things from a different perspective. I have been beating myself up since yesterday about the whole thing and I feel much better now. Yea, i feel like he really does like me ie. he texted me right after I left his place to say that he wished that I could stay longer, he called me later that day to make sure that I made it home safely, the next day, he said that he wanted to see me the next weekend, he texts or calls me almost everyday, he really wants to see me again and has been trying to work out plans to, and he even mentioned that he kept the smell of me in his bed since i left. That surprised the heck out of me lol. Anyway, I really do think that he likes me and i just don't want to ruin things whether it be by bringing up my feelings for him too soon or having sex with him too soon. I was once told that men use sex as a way of showing women that they love them or care about them and I was wondering if that's what he may have been doing, especially since he's been talking about pleasuring me a lot lately
I hate to break this to you but men can separate love & sex much more easily than women can.
Donna, I agree 100% with xxxs' advice to you.
I completely agree with XXXS, I have had sex once meeting a guy for the first time.