Sex,Drugs and Rock N Roll (LOL)

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Sex,Drugs and Rock N Roll (LOL)
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Thu, 07-25-2013 - 1:40am

Wow. I had a strange night with lots of mixed emotions..

That guy I met at the meet up group had tickets for a health expo which was supposed to be part of a meet up group.. Well I get there and the expo was pretty good but it was actually in a country club where on WEd. nights they have a band and dancing and all of that kind of stuff. Well after the expo I went into the outdoor patio where the band was and I ran into a few bikers.. They looked pretty interesting and they were like hey you can hang out with us.. I was like okay and they seemed pretty refreshing and real as compared to the hoity toity people at the health fare and at the club. So I was hanging out with them and drinking and dancing with one guy here and there and talking and joking around with the rest of them.. There was one of them that was really cute .. A bit overweight and def. way younger than me but he was really nice and at one point I was surrounded by a bunch of bikers.. It was so much fun.; but I was keeping my eye on K because I think I fell in love at first sight.. Anyway; He was most likely looking for a one night stand because he kept saying it was his birthday . He actually didnt feel like a threat or anything and we were all just having a good time..

WEll towards the end of the night when everyone left he grabs me and starts yes making out with me and I was like OMG but I participated in it.So here we are like two teenage strangers making out int he parking lot..  I am assuming he wanted to have sex and at one point he walked me to where his motorcycle was and says so do you want to come over to my house? I was like oh; no I cant.. Anyway;; He says okay so do you want to go for a ride on the bike. I was like okay.. So he proceeds to put the helmet on me which I thought was so cute and then we take a motorcycle ride and it was so much fun.. I wasnt even afraid at that point like i thought i would be.You know when you feel safe with someone and yeah I felt very safe .. Anyway; He then asks me if I want to go to Atlantic City with him for a day because no one he knows wants to go. I said yeah I will go.. Anyway after the bike ride he lets me off where my car was and we kissed and said goodbye .. It was like one of those endings in a movie where it was fun but kinda sad like okay take care and I will probably never see you again..

Oh; I forgot to add that somewhere in the middle of this all he took a few pictures of all of us and I said to him send it to my facebook page so that people will know I hang out with bad biker boys.. So I wrote down on a card my email address and of course phone number and gave it to him. He took it and said do you always give out your information like this .? I said no never but I just felt like giving it to you because well cause i just did...

Of course I am hoping he calls and we go to Atlantic City but I highly doubt it.. Well I can dream right???

 

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Registered: 06-06-2006
Thu, 07-25-2013 - 3:14am

Wow Free, that is fantastic! What an exciting experience, im very happy for you! And i really do hope that you hear from him soon! Cool, well done Cool!

Rocklady

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Registered: 05-14-1999
Thu, 07-25-2013 - 6:43am

So, K, the birthday guy and the biker guy are two different people or the same person?  Either way, it sounds like you had fun.  I love nights when you go into a situation not really expecting anything and you end up having a pretty eventful evening.  Those are the best.  Is the biker guy dating material or just fling material . . . You probably don't quite know him well enough to even start thinking about that stuff yet, huh?  Hopefully, if it's meant to be, he'll call and eventually you will get that opportunity ;)

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Registered: 01-02-2008
Thu, 07-25-2013 - 8:41am

Ha ha

The biker guy and the Birthday guy are the same guy.. He was the one I really liked and went on the motorcycle with..

oh; I left out the part where we were drinking and stuff but we werent drunk or anything..

Gee I never really thought much about if he was dating material or fling or anything as he appeared to be a free spirit like me so he probably already forgot about me (LOL)

 

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Registered: 11-28-1999
Thu, 07-25-2013 - 10:59am

Well my 2nd exH was a biker.  He pointed out that motorcycles are expensive so it's usually guys who have good jobs who have them (as you know in the north, you have to have a car too for the winter).  I actually used to think it was fun to ride--my ex had been riding for years and was a very safe driver.  I know a couple of guys from high school who have bikes and they aren't your typical biker dudes that you would think of at all--they are nice family men.  So did you get any other info on him like what kind of work he does, etc?  Since it was his birthday, you should have asked how old he was.  It sounds like a very interesting night--esp. when you don't expect to meet someone and then you do.  Hmmm, making out in the parking lot.  lol  Yeah, I'd do the same thing if I got the chance.

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Registered: 03-24-2003
Thu, 07-25-2013 - 11:13am

 

Hi Free..

I know you don't like me very much, but I just had to say, this is just WOW.  FANTASTIC STUFF!! This is brilliant,  this is living. It would be super great if he got in touch but even if he doesn't... that was SOME night you had.. Noone can take that away from you. I hope with all my heart that he emails/texts/whatever. Or just turns up at your place on his bike, in his leathers. Smile

WOW!!! Cool

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Registered: 01-02-2008
Thu, 07-25-2013 - 11:45am

oh; You guys are so funny .,.

Oh; yes he told me he was turning 52 last night and he showed me his license but it was dark and I couldnt see much but I am assuming it was true..He also told me he was on vacation from work for a week and not sure what he did for a living but his bike looked awefully expensive.. He was pretty upfront and honest about alot of stuff but not sure it was an atmosphere in that exact moment for asking many questions.

All of these biker guys who looked mean and tough and all were the sweetest nicest men I have ever seen in a long time.. The rest of the crowd were snobby phony wanna bee rich people who go out to dance and have fun and meet up with their clicks. These guys were so refreshing and it just happens that this one K was just really nice and cute and very down to earth and sort of just a regular guy all the way around.. You know that type ?

well maybe that is where I belong these days with the bikers and the pirates.. I went to a pirate festival a few weeks ago and althought it wasnt real the actors who portrayed pirates were just fun lovable down to earth regular people.. Maybe someone is trying to tell me something because the world out there is becoming so snooty and snobby and hoity toity and all designer bags and fake nails and bad plastic surgery.. I sure want to be with the regular folk..

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Registered: 11-28-1999
Thu, 07-25-2013 - 3:44pm

Oh well that is not a huge age difference, so go for it!

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Registered: 07-16-2001
Thu, 07-25-2013 - 5:13pm

I agree. Not a huge difference at all. I thought you meant he was 40 or something!  There's something about a guy who will push you up against a car (or wall or bike) and make out with you! 

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Registered: 01-02-2008
Thu, 07-25-2013 - 7:28pm

Ha.

You know last night brought me back to my younger days when years ago men would kind of man handle you and that doesnt really seem to happen anymore. LOL.... These days it appears everyone is afraid to make a move or ask for a date or whatever.. I wonder why that is?? Everyone is afraid that someone wants something from them? That is the only thing I can figure out.

I notice most people are just afraid of the opposite sex at times.. or am I just imagining that?

I swear I am meeting people who are just plain old afraid of getting involved and that is too many to mention.so the odds go down for something meaningful...

 

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Registered: 01-25-2010
Mon, 07-29-2013 - 5:10pm

It is hard to guess what the other person wants.   Today the penalties for misunderstanding are a lot higher  a least for men. 

chaika

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