Should I?

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Registered: 12-16-2005
Should I?
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Mon, 12-19-2005 - 8:54pm

discussion title: why is it so hard to find a good guy?
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from: soconfused86
date: 8:53 pm

I dont know what it is, maybe that ive just been lookin in all the wrong places or maybe its just me but lately all the guys i've met just seem jerks, or sweet guys at first that turn out to be jerks on the end once they figure out that all girls dont give it up easily... Sometime in June a guy from my past had come back into my life btu jsut for a few weeks since hes in the navy, I thought i was totaly over him, but all the old feelings had returned after we hung out just a few times.. I ended up braking down and criing more then once on his last night here for more then a few reasons... Now we're talking again, he called me the other day sayin were def gettin together when he comes back... i just hope i dont have to go through the same shyt as b4... Sometime in March when we ended everything, ive never felt so hurt, i've never been depressed over a guy b4... but he seemed like someone i could be with forever.. And after lieing to me, i just couldnt take it.. it hurt too much... He kept callin me but i refused to talk to him... I'm just wondering if it might be a good ideah to actually see him once he comes back in a lil more then a week... I just dont wanna be put in the same position as i was b4 with him.. i just have this weakness for him:(...

Thank you

Mwauh<3

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Registered: 11-01-2005
In reply to: soconfused86
Tue, 12-20-2005 - 12:57am

Just ask yourself if the problems that you have before would be problems again right now or in the future? Do the Cons outweigh the Pros or vice versa? If yes, ..you should walk away and not look back.

Rubyshoes

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