Should I ask???
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| Wed, 05-09-2007 - 5:43pm |
Okay, so here is the story. I have worked with this guy for a little over a month now at a restaurant, and I see him about once a week. We get along really well, and we are very flirty when we work. Example: always try to somehow touch eachother whenever we go by eachother, chatting during down time, but some of it is flirty chatting (?) if that makes sense. Okay, so my manager says that he likes me, but he is a slow mover, so I am not expecting a move from him for a while, if at all. HOwever, I have a wedding to go to in June, and I can and would like to bring a date. I don't have many options in the guy department that I would enjoy taking to a wedding, but I think he would be a really fun date. Now here is my question, would it be okay for me to casually ask him if he would want to go, tell him I have this wedding and I think he would be a fun date? Or is that weird? I just want to ask him because I don't much to lose other than the fact that if he says no, I still have to work with him, but whatever, I can get over my pride :) but just wondering if you think that is an appropriate thing to ask him to? I am hoping it might help to break the ice between us too.
THank you for reading this and any advice would be appreciated!

Unless you make it crystal clear that this is just intended to be *two friends* going to the wedding together, there's no way in heck I'd ask a guy to go to a wedding as a first date!
But after just a month, you haven't known him long enough to have that make sense--so no, I wouldn't ask him. A cup of coffee, sure. A wedding--no way jose.
Sheri
I'm kind of with Sheri on this one...do you *have* to have a date to the wedding?