shywon: this post is for you but...
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|Thu, 10-02-2003 - 11:43pm|
My post to you has two parts. The first part is re. our mutual problem with a man we've encountered online. After some thinking and pondering the advice of others, I have decided that I'm not calling or otherwise contacting M anymore - my M - not yours LOL.
For those who don't know, both shywon and I have spoken on the phone with men we've met via online dating. Despite obvious interest, neither guy is making a move to actually meet us in person. Anyhow, I've realized that this really is quite ridiculous. Sure - it's a little scary but is it really such a big deal to meet someone for an hour over a cup of coffee? Why do online dating if you're not acutally going to meet the person?
So, I've decided that the ball is in his court. I have already told him that I'm interested. Now it's up to him to decide what he's going to do about it. Now, I know that your M was going to come see your volleyball game. If he did - well woohoo! If not - then maybe it is time to just leave it alone. What do you think?
Okay - the second part of my post. I was lurking on another board and some "words" were exchanged on one particular thread. The reason...one poster commended another poster for the advice that she gives (in general). The OP became miffed and said that topics that are not directly related to her problem should be posted in a new discussion. Anyhow, I then realized that you (shywon) started a thread asking us to share something we did that we're proud of. Well, that thread went off topic for a while and I believe that I might have started that. So...I apologize if I "stole your thunder."
So, shywon - I'll be looking forward hearing an update from you re. M.