SICK of BEING SINGLE!!
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SICK of BEING SINGLE!!
| Sat, 12-09-2006 - 6:44pm |
ok, I'm 30 years old...and I am SICK of BEING SINGLE!! I'm ready for the next phase of my life to begin any day now!!!
I find myself actually being jealous of my friends and their lives...seeing them with their kids or husbands or boyfriends....
Anyone else feel this way???

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"....and in the end the love you take, is equal to the love you make..."
I think the holidays can also accentuate singlehood a lot. I mean, I always have this desire to find a great bf, be in a relationship, since I was about 22 or 23....but it's definitely a much bigger desire during the holidays...now I am 32. What makes matters worse, is that all of my girlfriends, ones that I used to get together with and b*tch and complain about the scarcity of good, eligible men, are now all in relationships of their own. Since this is an anonymous site, I can say safely this, they've ALL settled, for (I'm sorry) losers, for fear of being alone. All of them are in unhealty relationships, some of their bf's are verbally abusive, some drink too much, and ALL are underemployed. I guess they felt that anything was better than being single, which I just don't relate to at all, because I respect and love myself enough to realize that I deserve a wonderful relationship/man. A lot of it is also about putting yourself out there, and trying, going to events, just being friendly. I will admit though, after many MANY disappointments with past BF's or dating in general, a lot of times after work, I adopt the "why bother" approach, and what is most appealing is just going home, to watch a great movie, read a great book, do my nails, artwork, paint....basically not deal with men at all. Deep down, I know though, if you want a relationship, you have to put more effort into finding one and don't let yourself lose hope. Project what you want, put good things out there, be kind to everyone and every living thing and it WILL come back to you. I truly believe that.
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