Single and confused

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Registered: 04-22-2006
Single and confused
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Wed, 10-11-2006 - 11:19pm
Ok...I met this guy on Sept.8 at a friend's house. He was really cute and right away he was starting to flirt with me and kept trying to make conversation. We hung out all night and even got a little cozy next to each other on the couch. He left before I did and there were a lot of people sitting around, so I didn’t really get a chance to personally say good bye. I asked my friend about him the next day and he must have told him that I asked because before I knew it he had asked for my number. A few days later he called me. We talked for a good hour, but it was getting late, so we both had to go. We have hung out once since then, but we both have been really busy. We have been in contact with each other off and on now since then. Last week he called me almost everyday and we talked for an hour at a time about really personally stuff. Nothing that I would tell just a random friend and stuff he doesn’t inform everyone about. We were suppose to get together over the weekend, but he never answered his phone, but finally called me Sat. night to tell me he had been dealing with some stuff with his friend. He told me exactly what was going on, but that isn’t relevant. He told me that we would hang out on Sun. but he never called. I keep call him, but his phone was off. I haven’t talk to him since Sunday and I don’t know why he hasn’t returned any of my calls. What should I do? Is he even interested in me? Am I "doing too much"? I'm so confused on the whole situation. I really like him and he is one of the nicest guys I know. I don’t want to let him just walk away!!! HELP!!!
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Thu, 10-12-2006 - 7:42am

Is he interested?

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Registered: 04-09-2008
Thu, 10-12-2006 - 9:59am
I agree with the previous poster, I don't think he's all that interested. It's already thursday and that was saturday. If he is and truly had a lot going on...then he would have at least called. If he has too much on his plate right now then you would probably always be left hanging like this if you decided to put up with this behavior. As a matter of fact, I would recommend you not answer your phone if he does call you at this point.