Single and Miserable

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Registered: 03-20-2007
Single and Miserable
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Thu, 04-24-2008 - 3:05pm

Hey guys.


Ive been single for a while now and I'm just miserable. I just got out of an almost year long relationship and I'm still upset about that but for the most part, I'm over it but I hate being by myself. what do I do?


~Mae, Sode no Shiryuki~
~Some No Mai, Tsukishiro ~

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Registered: 10-17-2002
Thu, 04-24-2008 - 3:55pm

You have to learn to be comfortable with yourself.

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Registered: 01-22-2007
Thu, 04-24-2008 - 4:24pm

“People believe themselves to be dependent on what happens for their happiness, that is to say, dependent on form. They don’t realize that what happens

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Registered: 10-17-2005
Fri, 04-25-2008 - 12:21pm

I just had to leave you a note that this is the best advice I have heard in a while.

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Registered: 10-17-2002
Fri, 04-25-2008 - 12:38pm

Thanks!

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Registered: 12-03-2006
Fri, 04-25-2008 - 5:05pm

"...just know that no storm lasts forever and

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Registered: 12-13-2007
Sat, 04-26-2008 - 2:21pm

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Registered: 04-28-2004
Sun, 04-27-2008 - 11:57am

Hi White Satin - I love your screen name.

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Registered: 03-20-2007
Mon, 04-28-2008 - 1:02pm
I realize that I'm still young and all but it doesn't change the fact that I hate being alone. I've basically always been alone and apparently god seems to enjoy laughing at me because anytime I'm ever happy, I always manage to screw it up. I hate the feeling of constant loneliness and depression. It's pretty sad when I'm only a senior in high school and I could give advise like I was 30. I'm the one that everyone overlooks all the time because I realize that I'm by far not pretty at all, or the smartest, and definately not the most athletic. I'm the girl that gets mistaken for a guy on various occasions. I'm the girl that guys don't want to date because it'd be too weird. I'm the person that would rather be online and play a game with other people rather than partying or hanging out face to face. At least when I'm online, I don't have to worry about people judging me from how I look.



Throught life I've realized that there is no true definition of NORMAL. we each choose our own path laid out before us.
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Registered: 12-03-2006
Fri, 05-02-2008 - 12:39am

Nicegurl,


It sounds like you have onset of depression. I say this because I started having symptoms of depression when I was 22 and it was a big struggle from then on with my life. You may still be able to accomplish things and have RS but if you get treated, life could be so much better and you don't have to work as hard to achieve the same level. It's like driving with a dirty windshield.

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Registered: 12-03-2006
Fri, 05-02-2008 - 1:23am

Hi clr1970,


I'm very unmotivated to take the initiation w/ men these days.

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