So I'm interested in this guy...
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| Tue, 10-11-2005 - 6:54pm |
A few weeks ago I came to the realization that now that i'm single, I can start seeing people, maybe even dating *gasp*. And then I remembered the Purolator guy that i've liked for a long long time. Prior to going to college, I saw and spoke to him on a daily basis- he's just a super nice, friendly, cute guy.
Anyway, so I recalled that last i heard he was single, about 3 months ago. So I did some research, asking friends and such, and was trying to work up the nerve to ask him out. Problem was I rarely see/saw him and had/have a hard time bumping into him and talking to him.
I'm pretty sure he likes me- he honks at me and waves at me whenever he drives by me while i'm walking to run errands in the mornings. There's been times where he's even yelled out "Hi" to get my attention.
Now, before I finish my little post here, I have to add that I was kind of rude to him about a 2 months ago- I was having an off day, was feeling shy, and also had recently broken up with my bf, and when he came in to drop off a package and tried to talk to me i sort of barely looked at him and was just kind of, rude. But i was so distracted that i didn't really realize how i came off. I mention that just because i think i gave him the message i'm not interested in him when i didn't mean to at all.
Anyway so i just found out that he's "kind of seeing somebody" (what he told my friend when she asked if he was seeing anyone.) When he said that to her, she said "well, if that doesn't work out, let me know cause i've got something interesting to tell you, wink wink" - he may connect that to me, but probably not since she knows a lot of people around town.
So he's "sort of" seeing someone now, and I was just wondering if I should still ask him out if i do bump into him or if I should leave this be and just try meeting other guys? What's the rules on asking someone out when they've told others that the relationship they're in is "nothing serious"?

Continue to be friendly with him, but if he's dating someone else, there's a reason for it- even if it's not serious yet. As long as you don't shun him and continue to be friendly with him, you're doing all that you morally should do right now.
Good luck.