Some things I've observed

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Registered: 06-14-2007
Some things I've observed
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Sun, 07-15-2007 - 2:34am
1-women with more than 3% body fat shouldn't wear low rise jeans
2-if you have no intention of calling a man don't give him your number-just say no.
3-you complain about men looking at other women, you women check out other men so don't complain.
4-you are not sexy in shoes that prevent you from taking a full step ie 4 inch heels, platform shoes.
5-if you don't have hips and/or a butt be careful about how big your breast implants are; you will have a nasty looking profile.

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Registered: 05-01-2007
Mon, 07-16-2007 - 10:43am
I think it depends really. I just learned that if you make a big deal out of it, it looks petty and jealous. Clearly, if a guy is ignoring you or being completely obvious, then mention it. But I'm not going to hold it against a guy if 6 ft bombshell glides by in a short skirt and he takes a look. We're all only human.
Matter of degrees, I think. If I was with a guy who somehow thought drooling into another woman's cleavage while on a date with me is all right, well, that'll be the last date.

~Heather~

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Thu, 07-19-2007 - 12:43pm
5. if you are born with them its OK
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Thu, 07-19-2007 - 12:48pm
1. agree
5. agree
7. Most men don't want to hurt a woman's feeling so he'll be able to get laid later on.
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Thu, 07-19-2007 - 12:58pm

struck a nerve did I

I am bitter because they are wasting my time. No man is 100% when it comes to women.

I am only talking about the women taking baby steps in there shoes--entertainers don't count

I was talking about women looking at me. A episode of sex in the city had the woman complaining.

go for you if men like you--it doesn't mean you don't look unbalanced. I love dolly parton, I just think she's unbalanced.

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Registered: 01-26-2006
Thu, 07-19-2007 - 1:20pm
I get the feeling you were joking a lot more than it first seemed...it just seemed offensive at first glance and I'm NOT a super/crazy-PC woman.
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Fri, 07-20-2007 - 8:55am
A wee bit of a nerve! LOL
I'm not supersensitive, its just that you hear and see a lot of outta shape guys talking smack about girls, and I can never help but think, ever look in a mirror, pal?
And I've never watched Sex in the City - don't have HBO or the time.
I agree that women do need to learn to walk in heels, but if it works, then work it.
I'm not an "entertainer", however.

~Heather~

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Fri, 07-20-2007 - 10:56am

LOL No, I'm FAR from an entertainer as well! :)

Four inches is really not that high...I'm wearing about that now and walked 20 minutes into work in them...people often look at me and go, "in THOSE shoes?" Yes, it doesn't bother me! :) And let me tell you how many more looks I get when I wear a skirt with heels vs. flip flops. :)

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Registered: 01-26-2005
Fri, 07-20-2007 - 3:59pm

1-women with more than 3% body fat shouldn't wear low rise jeans

If you have a highcut shirt it's worse...It's gross to see bareskin poochy love handles hanging even the slightest bit. On the other hand, I think it's trashy to wear low rise jeans and shirt that shows part of your midriff even if you have the perfect body.

2-if you have no intention of calling a man don't give him your number-just say no.

As a woman, I have to admit I've done that to a few guys. In the moment I did think i wanted to talk to him on the phone. Then I lost interest. I DO NOT do that anymore. Aside it being completely rude to do to someone, it's also a nuisance to have someone calling you you don't want to talk to. :P

3-you complain about men looking at other women, you women check out other men so don't complain.

It's human nature to notice the way someone looks. period. The boundary is gray though as far as when it's considered disrespectful to your mate depending on how obvious, crass you are about it, etc.

4-you are not sexy in shoes that prevent you from taking a full step ie 4 inch heels, platform shoes.

that's funny! true. i'm 5-2, but having danced for 14 years, my balance and physique is coordinated enough to be able to handle the high heels which i looooove!

5-if you don't have hips and/or a butt be careful about how big your breast implants are; you will have a nasty looking profile.

If the profile is god given, then accept it. Tacky to create it with fake breasts.

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